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How you can use visualization and meditation to bring all success in your life

When things go wrong. When you wake up at the wrong side of the bed. You feel bad since morning. Everything seems to be wrong afterward. Your car may break down on the way to work. You go to the office several hours late. You have a phone from your wife that she forgets to bring along her purse and she needs you to send her some money for her lunch. You get scold from your boss since one of your task has been messed up by your secretary. You don’t have time for lunch since the meeting drag over the time and there is a major task wait for you in the afternoon. You check your mail and find out that the credit card company wrongly charges your membership fee. You have to run late for your work. You are starving and exhausted. You went to pick up your wife and drive home and find out that the house doesn’t have electricity. It was cut out because you forgot to pay the bill since two weeks.

What do you think you should feel after all these things? I am sure that most people will say that the feeling should not be very positive. The reason is simply that the circumstances are suck and we all leave under the influence of the outside circumstances. One thing that I learn along the way from the top personal development people is that ” oustside circumstances does not really control your feeling. Instead, your inner mind is the one that controls how you fell during a particular period of time.

I just finished a studied questionaire on marketing behavior. Surprisingly, the same people answer the same type of questions differently if it is asked by different ways. This is due to the way the questions are structured and perceived in that person’s mind.

If you believe this theory, you have to understand that your inner mind has enough power to overcome the influence of other outside factors. No matter how bad the situation is, you always can find the way to feel good. This character is like other skill that people need to make. You need to practice in order to be able to master your feeling. Some of the simple techniques can be:

- Feel grateful of what you are already having. You have to practice to find that your life is great and find good things. Feeling of gratitude is very important for your advancement in every areas of life.
- Love and respect yourself. Find an anchor phrase like ” I like myself” or ” I am the best”. All these phrases can boosted up your self-esteem and good feeling.
- Be positive. Look for good points of everything. As mentioned in a great book, if you seek, you will find.
- Smile, walk faster, be enthusiastic,laugh easily. Physical movement can affect your feeling. Learn how to put the gesture that will boost up your good feeling. this will enhance your feeling regardless of situation.

Although, most people got depressed when the circumstances turn against them. The successful people know how to master their feeling by controlling their inner mind. This article gives you the tips on how to practice your mind to your positive feeling.

Jim Somchai
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Life is like a road. There are long and short roads; smooth and rocky roads; crooked and straight paths. In our life many roads would come our way as we journey through life. There are roads that lead to a life of single blessedness, marriage, and religious vocation. There are also roads that lead to fame and fortune on one hand, or isolation and poverty on the other. There are roads to happiness as there are roads to sadness, roads towards victory and jubilation, and roads leading to defeat and disappointment.

Just like any road, there are corners, detours, and crossroads in life. Perhaps the most perplexing road that you would encounter is a crossroad. With four roads to choose from and with limited knowledge on where they would go, which road will you take? What is the guarantee that we would choose the right one along the way? Would you take any road, or just stay where you are: in front of a crossroad?

There are no guarantees.

You do not really know where a road will lead you until you take it. There are no guarantees. This is one of the most important things you need to realize about life. Nobody said that choosing to do the right thing all the time would always lead you to happiness. Loving someone with all your heart does not guarantee that it would be returned. Gaining fame and fortune does not guarantee happiness. Accepting a good word from an influential superior to cut your trip short up the career ladder is not always bad, especially if you are highly qualified and competent. There are too many possible outcomes, which your really cannot control. The only thing you have power over is the decisions that you will make, and how you would act and react to different situations.

Wrong decisions are always at hindsight.

Had you known that you were making a wrong decision, would you have gone along with it? Perhaps not, why would you choose a certain path when you know it would get you lost? Why make a certain decision if you knew from the very beginning that it is not the right one. It is only after you have made a decision and reflected on it that you realize its soundness. If the consequences or outcomes are good for you, then you have decided correctly. Otherwise, your decision was wrong.

Take the risk: decide.

Since life offers no guarantee and you would never know that your decision would be wrong until you have made it, then you might as well take the risk and decide. It is definitely better than keeping yourself in limbo. Although it is true that one wrong turn could get you lost, it could also be that such a turn could be an opportunity for an adventure, moreover open more roads. It is all a matter of perspective. You have the choice between being a lost traveller or an accidental tourist of life. But take caution that you do not make decisions haphazardly. Taking risks is not about being careless and stupid. Here are some pointers that could help you choose the best option in the face of life’s crossroads:
ท Get as many information as you can about your situation.

You cannot find the confidence to decide when you know so little about what you are faced with. Just like any news reporter, ask the 5 W’s: what, who, when, where, and why. What is the situation? Who are the people involved? When did this happen? Where is this leading? Why are you in this situation? These are just some of the possible questions to ask to know more about your situation. This is important. Oftentimes, the reason for indecision is the lack of information about a situation.

ท Identify and create options.

What options do the situation give you? Sometimes the options are few, but sometimes they are numerous. But what do you do when you think that the situation offers no options? This is the time that you create your own. Make your creative mind work. From the most simplistic to the most complicated, entertain all ideas. Do not shoot anything down when an idea comes to your head. Sometimes the most outrageous idea could prove to be the right one in the end. You can ask a friend to help you identify options and even make more options if you encounter some difficulty, but make sure that you make the decision yourself in the end.

ท Weigh the pros and cons of every option.

Assess each option by looking at the advantages and disadvantages it offers you. In this way, you get more insights about the consequences of such an option.

ท Trust yourself and make that decision.

Now that you have assessed your options, it is now time to trust yourself. Remember that there are no guarantees and wrong decisions are always at hindsight. So choose… decide… believe that you are choosing the best option at this point in time.

Now that you have made a decision, be ready to face its consequences: good and bad. It may take you to a place of promise or to a land of problems. But the important thing is that you have chosen to live your life instead of remaining a bystander or a passive audience to your own life. Whether it is the right decision or not, only time can tell. But do not regret it whatever the outcome. Instead, learn from it and remember that you always have the chance to make better decisions in the future.

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Time management is basically about being focused. The Pareto Principle also known as the ‘80:20 Rule’ states that 80% of efforts that are not time managed or unfocused generates only 20% of the desired output. However,  80% of the desired output can be generated using only 20% of a well time managed effort. Although  the ratio ‘80:20′ is only arbitrary, it is used to put emphasis on how much is lost or how much can be gained with time management.

Some people view time management as a list of rules that involves scheduling of appointments, goal settings, thorough planning, creating things to do lists and prioritizing. These are the core basics of time management that should be understood to develop an efficient personal time management skill. These basic skills can be fine tuned further to include the finer points of each skill that can give you that extra reserve to make the results you desire.

But there is more skills involved in time management than the core basics. Skills such as decision making, inherent abilities such as emotional intelligence and critical thinking are also essential to your personal growth.

Personal time management involves everything you do. No matter how big and no matter how small, everything counts. Each new knowledge you acquire, each new advice you consider, each new skill you develop should be taken into consideration.

Having a balanced life-style should be the key result in having personal time management. This is the main aspect that many practitioners of personal time management fail to grasp.

Time management is about getting results, not about being busy.

The six areas that personal time management seeks to improve in anyone’s life are physical, intellectual, social, career, emotional and spiritual.

The physical aspect involves having a healthy body, less stress and fatigue.

The intellectual aspect involves learning and other mental growth activities.

The social aspect involves developing personal or intimate relations and being an active contributor to society.

The career aspect involves school and work.

The emotional aspect involves appropriate feelings and desires and manifesting them.

The spiritual aspect involves a personal quest for meaning.

Thoroughly planning and having a set of things to do list for each of the key areas may not be very practical, but determining which area in your life is not being giving enough attention is part of time management. Each area creates the whole you, if you are ignoring one area then you are ignoring an important part of yourself.

Personal time management should not be so daunting a task. It is a very sensible and reasonable approach in solving problems big or small.

A great way of learning time management and improving your personal life is to follow several basic activities.

One of them is to review your goals whether it be immediate or long-term goals often.

A way to do this is to keep a list that is always accessible to you.

Always determine which task is necessary or not necessary in achieving your goals and which activities are helping you maintain a balanced life style.
 
Each and everyone of us has a peek time and a time when we slow down, these are our natural cycles. We should be able to tell when to do the difficult tasks when we are the sharpest.

Learning to say “No”. You actually see this advice often. Heed it even if it involves saying the word to family or friends.

Pat yourself at the back or just reward yourself in any manner for an effective time management result.

Try and get the cooperation from people around you who are actually benefiting from your efforts of time management.

Don’t procrastinate. Attend to necessary things immediately.

Have a positive attitude and set yourself up for success. But be realistic in your approach in achieving your goals.

Have a record or journal of all your activities. This will help you get things in their proper perspective.

These are the few steps you initially take in becoming a well rounded individual.

As the say personal time management is the art and science of building a better life.

From the moment you integrate into your life time management skills, you have opened several options that can provide a broad spectrum of solutions to your personal growth. It also creates more doors for opportunities to knock on.

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The basics of setting a goal is an open secret known by top-caliber athletes, successful businessmen and businesswomen and all types of achievers in all the different fields. The basics of setting goals give you short-term and long-term motivation and focus. They help you set focus on the acquisition of required knowledge and help you to plan and organize your resources and your time so that you can get the best out of your life.

Setting clearly defined short term and long term goals will enable you to measure your progress and achieve personal satisfaction once you have successfully met your goals. Charting your progress will also enable you to actually see the stages of completion leading to the actual realization of your goals. This eliminates the feeling of a long and pointless grind towards achieving your goal. Your self-confidence and level of competence will also improve as you will be more aware of your capabilities as you complete or achieve your goals.

The basics of goal settings will involve deciding what you really want to do with your personal life and what short term and long term goals you need to achieve it. Then you have to break down goals into the smaller and manageable targets that you must complete in your way to achieving your lifetime targets. Once you have your list waste no time in tackling your goals.

A good way to have a manageable list is to have a daily and weekly set of goals. By doing this you will be always in the position of going towards you life plan goals. Everyday will give you the opportunity to fulfill a certain goal giving you the feeling of accomplishment.

Here are some pointers that should be taken into consideration in setting goals and achieving them.

Attitude plays a very big role in setting and achieving your goals. You must ask yourself if any part of you or your mind holding you back towards completing your simplest goals? If there are any part of your behavior that is being a hindrance or puts your plans into disarray? If you do have problems in these areas then the immediate thing to do is to address this problem. Solutions may include a visit to a doctor or psychiatrist to control your emotions.

Careers are made by good time management practice. Failing in a career is often attributed to bad time management. Careers require a lot from an individual which often makes the career the life of the individual. Plan how far do you want to go into your career.

Education is key in achieving your goals. If your goals require you to have a certain kind of degree or require a certain specialization or demand a certain skill to be developed, make plans in getting the appropriate education.

Your family should never be left out of your plans. If you are just starting out then you have to decide if you want to be a parent or when you want to be a parent. You also have to know if you really would be a good parent and how well would you relate to extended family members

Personal financial situations also play a major role in achieving your goals. Have a realistic goal on how much you really want to earn. You also must be able to create plans or stages by which you will be able to reach your earning potential.

Physically gifted individuals may be able to achieve sports related goals like being in the National Basketball association or National Football League. Determining your physical capabilities should be one of your priorities. Physical limitations could however be conquered with proper planning.

As the saying goes -’All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy’, or something to that effect, is by all means true down to the last the letter. Giving yourself a little pleasure: should be included into your plans.

To start achieving your lifetime goals, set a quarter of a century plan, then break it down to 5 year plans then break it down again to 1 year plans, then 6 month plans then monthly plans, then weekly, then daily.

Then create a things-to-do list for the day.

Always review your plans and prepare for contingencies.

The basics of goal settings should not be so difficult once you get to be familiar with them.
Jim Somchai
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Everyone, at some point of his or her life, has dreamed of being somebody special, somebody big. Who hasn’t fantasized about being the one who hits the game-winning homer? Who hasn’t dreamed of being the homecoming queen? And how many times have we dreamed of being rich, or successful, or happy with our relationships?

Often, we dream big dreams and have great aspirations. Unfortunately, our dreams remain just that – dreams. And our aspirations easily collect dust in our attic.

This is a sad turn of events in our life. Instead of experiencing exciting adventures in self actualization, we get caught up in the humdrum of living from day-to-day just barely existing.

But you know what? Life could be so much better, if only we learned to aim higher.

The most common problem to setting goals is the word impossible. Most people get hung up thinking I can’t do this. It’s too hard. It’s too impossible. No one can do this.

However, if everyone thought that, there would be no inventions, no innovations, and no breakthroughs in human accomplishment.

Remember that scientists were baffled when they took a look at the humble bumblebee. Theoretically, they said, it was impossible for the bumblebee to fly. Unfortunately for the bumble, bee no one has told it so. So fly it does.

On the other hand, some people suffer from dreaming totally outrageous dreams and not acting on them. The result? Broken dreams, and tattered aspirations.

If you limit yourself with self-doubt, and self-limiting assumptions, you will never be able to break past what you deem impossible. If you reach too far out into the sky without working towards your goal, you will find yourself clinging on to the impossible dream.

Try this exercise. Take a piece of paper and write down some goals in your life. Under one header, list down things ‘you know you can do’. Under another header, write the things ‘you might be able to do.’ And under one more, list the things that that are ‘impossible for you to do.’

Now look at all the headers strive every day to accomplish the goals that are under things ‘you know you can do’. Check them when you are able to accomplish them. As you slowly are able to check all of your goals under that heading, try accomplishing the goals under the other header-the one that reads ‘you might be able to do.’

As of the items you wrote under things I could do are accomplished, you can move the goals that are under things that are ‘impossible for you to do’ to the list of things ‘you might be able to do.’

As you iterate through this process, you will find out that the goals you thought were impossible become easier to accomplish. And the impossible begin to seem possible after all.

You see, the technique here is not to limit your imagination. It is to aim high, and start working towards that goal little by little. However, it also is unwise to set a goal that is truly unrealistic.

Those who just dream towards a goal without working hard end up disappointed and disillusioned.

On the other hand, if you told someone a hundred years ago that it was possible for man to be on the moon, they would laugh at you. If you had told them that you could send mail from here to the other side of the world in a few seconds, they would say you were out of your mind. But, through sheer desire and perseverance, these impossible dreams are now realities.

Thomas Edison once said that genius is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration. Nothing could be truer. For one to accomplish his or her dreams, there has to be had work and discipline. But take note that that 1% has to be a think-big dream, and not some easily accomplished one.

Ask any gym rat and he or she will tell you that there can be no gains unless you are put out of your comfort zone. Remember the saying, “No pain, no gain”? That is as true as it can be.

So dream on, friend! Don’t get caught up with your perceived limitations. Think big and work hard to attain those dreams. As you step up the ladder of progress, you will just about find out that the impossible has just become a little bit more possible.

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Do you like the movie “Back to the future”? If so, you will love this movie. It is not easy to find a good family movie with the inspiring content like this one. Normally, the family movie is either rather weak in the method of proposing the meaning or somewhat too childish. This is the reason that many people ignore to see the PG movie despite the good nature of it. This movie has a lot to do with the inspiration in life. Come and let’s explore what I get from the movie.

A boy was left out in front of an orphanage house by a lady who we believe that she is his mother. That boy was brought up as an orphan who loves invention. He obsesses into doing that and nobody seems to come and adopt him until the age of twelve. Until he later wants to invent what can make him meet his mother. And the day he completes his invention, he changes his life forever. The story line is simple but subtle in some manner. For some hard core movie goers, it is not difficult to predict how the movie is going to end but it is very amusing to follow what we can predict. The animation is well drawn in Disney’s style and of course no bad language in it. As smooth as it is, we can learn several ideas and be inspired by it including:1. Failure should not be looked as bad thing. Instead, it should be admired.
Why do we have to admire when a person fail to do something? Because it means the person does something. There is a scene in the movie that the boy did mistake on fixing one instrument, the Robinsons family celebrate it with joy and encourage him to move forward. “Keep on moving” can be the motto in the movie. We can use this too in our lives. Don’t be afraid to fall since it is the path to our growth and achievement.2. People should be given the second chance.
When the antagonist finally accepts his mistake, our hero does not only take him back but also help him to get back in shape. Normally, when we meet the enemy, especially in this world nowadays, we want him to be destroyed. We should have mercy to everybody. Brian Tracy said in his book, the way that makes us resolve to be psychologically mature is that we forgive everybody including, and especially, ourselves. This is a good lesson to learn from the movie.

3. Do not give up on your future and on your self.
Although the movie is about the time traveling and about the certainty in the future, it also implies that the future really depends on our actions. Nobody can write our future except us ourselves. When we understand this, we will not complain why we end up where we are at the moment. We are where we are because we decide that it is our place now nothing else has stronger influence than this.

This is one of the good and inspiring movies we should watch this year. We can learn a lot from the movie and can be entertaining at the same time.

Jim Somchai
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When you think about future, do you see where you are going to be? Are you certain that you will have what you want in a certain period of time? Do you have goals? Is your life the way you want it to be? If you go back to where you were three or five years ago, would you be happy to see the status you are having right now? Do you believe that if you lead your life like this, you will wind up not much different from where you are now? Will you happy? These many questions relates to what we call “time perspective”.

Do you know that successful people have longer time perspective than the ones who are not so successful? Successful people think of the impact of the actions to their lives in three or five years late. They ask themselves if the situation helps or have some impact to their lives long term. On the contrary, unsuccessful people think about their short term gratification. They hardly have plan for future and their care less on their time planning if they have one. We can easily notice if we are a good time planner by seeing if we are often impulse buyers. If we buy things without plan or just by them because we accidentally bump into it. There is a tendency that we are the short time perspective people. We need to hurriedly correct that.Why does the long term time perspective matter? Because it relates to how we plan our lives for the good future not only just for being happy for a short while and then bear the negative consequences. Whether a person is successful is measured long term. Some even says that everything in life is measured by what you have on the last day of your life. I think it is logical and well spoken.For some investment like buying a house, we understand that people need to prepare well in advance before we go into it. We know that we need to prepare financially since the almost all of the house payment is for long term. We need to know the location and understand how we and our families can commute within the area. We need to know how the utilities are provided. Will there be any new construction nearby? How about the pollution problem and people nearby? We need to think a lot about these before we buy a house right? Why is that? Because buying a house is an expensive process for most people and it has big impact to the lives of us.

Planning a life is like buying a house. Unfortunately, most people take their lives for grant and ignore the process. They are not so careful on leading their lives and a lot of them end up in trouble in the latter years of their lives. Tragically, a lot realize this when it is too late for them to do anything. Don’t let this happen to you.

Start to honor your time perspective. See things in the longer term view. Ask yourself what will happen to you five years from now if you keep doing what you are doing. Will you be better off or worse off? Once you create a habit of asking this question, you will amazingly improve your time utilization which in the end will help you in the future.

Although there are a lot of concepts teaching that you need to focus and do things for the moment of now, there is the other angle of the time usage for the future results. This article talks about long into long term perspective and how to use your time effectively.

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Today I got a phone call from the phone company. The person in the line told me that I lacked one payment and it needed to be taken care of. I tried to explain to her that I have already paid a few days ago but she kept on talking. It seemed that she did not want to listen just to inform and then she would go. I tried to ask her to listen but she still kept on talking. I started to get angry and asked her to stop. Still she did not seem to understand. Finally, I told her that I would hang up the phone and I did. I was really mad at her. Why was I? I don’t know. I tracked down her name and wanted to make a revenge. I found out that I paid but for the wrong phone number. I am sure that I write the right number when I paid. Probably, the lady at the counter punched the wrong number and charged me to pay for other people’s phone. Again, I started to be mad at her.

This is the real event that happened to me just today. The point is whether it is worthwhile and reasonable for me to get angry. I think logically I should be mad at those ladies according to my own reason. They did wrong and they deserve to be scolded at. But when I rethink about it, what will be good for me if that is really happened. First the event has a lot to do with my assumptions. I do not know if my assumptions are true or not. I thought they are but who know. Secondly, it is for sure that if the event is good or bad is just my feeling. Whether the first girl is really rude on the phone is just my judgment. May be my expectation is not the way standard procedure is for her. May be I was not control my voice well to let her know that I want to speak. This may not be fair for her. Therefore, my first lesson from this event is that we should be fair for others. We need to not make our judgment by adding those negative comments toward what have happened.My second lesson is that I should not assume so much if it is not necessary. If it is not positive, I should not bother thinking about it whether it is true or not. If I feel bad, I should have stopped my assumption immediately. I would ask myself if I can find any positive meaning from what had happened. In this case, I should be very happy since the wrong charge is just a small amount of money. It teaches me to be careful and check the receipt every time I make a payment.The third and the last lesson is that anger does not solve any problem. Instead, it affects your sanity and consciousness. You can not make a good decision with the anger mode. Anger also affects your physical body in negative way. You got higher blood pressure. Your heartbeat gets faster. You have more adrenaline in your blood. All these can cause your body function abnormally and at the end makes poor decision or action.

Some people said it is OK to be angry and some said to express your anger toward others is a healthy way to lead a life. I think that is not the way we should practice. We need to know how to handle our anger in order to keep our mind bright and shine. Anger is one of the negative emotions that we need to take care of.

We tend to get angry when things go wrong. We have a tendency to blame others and be angry. This article talks about how to manage anger and learn to take responsibility on what happens in our life.

Jim Somchai
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These few days I have a chance to meet with many new people. They are mostly in the internet marketing and personal development field. How can these two fields relate to each other? I am not one hundred per cent sure if they are really related. But if you let me guess, I think the people who decide to go for internet marketer and be successful at it have to have some level of self-improvement knowledge. They have to know how to grow themselves despite all the challenges they had along the way. Once they study on the subject either by having a mentor, taking some courses or read some books, some start to be obsessed in the topic. Later on, it becomes their passion.

It can be the other way around. Some have passions in personal development knowledge. They then look for the way to make the best out of themselves. They know that not using their full potential is the worst thing that they can do to their lives. Unfortunately, a lot of work environment do not allow them to achieve such high level of commitment. They therefore look for the opportunity which let them be the best on what they do. Besides, all personal development people know that being financial independent is not impossible. That’s why internet marketing becomes one of their great choices since it provide almost all their want with little monetary investment in comparison with other type of business.I have learnt a lot from mingling with these people who I consider very success oriented group of people. I am sure that a lot of them, if not all, will be successful in their life one way or another. Here are the qualities of these people that I have noticed including:

1. They have passion on what they are doing.
Passion affects your emotion. Your emotion affects your performance. Whether you will be good at what you do or you will blow up all you have done very much depends on whether you like what you do. You need to know how to love it or it will not work. If you are not sure if you really like it, may be you need to look for other thing that you love and want to do. Make sure that you really love and are passionate toward what you are doing. If you have this quality, success will not be far away from you.

2. They have their own goals. They commit to them seriously.
You know how important goals are for your life. I do not have to reiterate here. However, you must not only just have a goal or goals but also commit to them. Your commitment will bring you right action toward your goals.

3. They know the process of success. They are not afraid of failure.
Some of these people do not even use the word failure. They just use other terminology because they know that failure will not exist unless they give up on their action and their determination to pursue their goals.

4. They believe and love themselves.
These people love other people and they love themselves. They understand lives and they know that without trust in themselves they will not be successful in doing anything. Self actualization is one of the most needs that you have to fulfill so that you can grow to another step in your lives.

If you want success, you need to be in the group of people that also have similar goals. You will learn a lot from talking with them and be around them.

Jim Somchai
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Telephone had been created for more than a century. In the beginning, it is a kind of luxury product. No everybody has the privilege to make use of it. However, we find telephone is now an essential product. We now have mobile phone which is a more advance version of telephone. It is now one of the most powerful tools in communication. However, we hardly notice that it can be obstacle to our success. It can threaten our time management system. In this article, we will talk about how the phone can be our problem and what to do to prevent that.In our every day life, we now over use the telephone. The telephone fee is getting cheaper and cheaper. We just feel to use it any time we want. The control of telephone usage will save us enormous time. We can achieve many more tasks in a day. Here are some methods to control your use of telephone at work to make your work more effective.

1. Use the phone only for business. Limit the use for social talk.
We are used to use telephone as a tool to communicate with friends or with the opposite sex when we were young. We tend to relax and spend a lot of time for our social talk. But in business, this will be a waste of your time. You should limit your social talk on telephone as much as you can. Keep reminding yourself to use the phone only for business when you are at work. You will find that you have more time to efficiently manage your job.2. Find out who calls you and ask for the purpose as soon as possible.
If you have a secretary, let her screen your call by these two objectives first. If you have no secretary or assistant, do the same with short questions. You can judge how much time to spend with this person by the purpose of the call. You will save a lot of time to useless phone talk by this method.

3. Set up the time of the day to not taking any call.
You should reserve some time for your concentration of the task. You can unplug your phone. Turn off your mobile. Tell your assistant that you will not take any call. This will help you save a lot of interruption.

4. If you are not available, give the caller the call back time.
In order to prevent spending time chasing people back and forth, you should let the person who call you and you are not available the convenient time that you will call back to see if he is OK.

5. Write down the agenda of the call so that you can effectively communicate.
Threat the telephone call like business meeting. Write down the purpose of the call and list all the things that you would want to talk. This will be better and save time when you pick up the phone and forget why you are calling. Or you may talk about some issue and forget some other important points.

6. Take careful note of your call.
We can easily forget what we have just discussed on the phone. We should have some notebook beside the phone so that we can jot down the major issues that we discussed. This will save time to raise the issue up again when we do not have to.

Telephone can be a time waster if you do not use it properly. This article shows you the method of how to use the telephone more effectively.

Jim Somchai
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